My Men

Mandy May Cheetham
2 min readNov 1, 2021
Three Uncles and a Cousin-in-Law by MMC

My men grew up with holes in the knees of their jeans

and hair that was combed on Sunday.

Graduated to ride dirt bikes

while the girls watched.

Danced once they had a couple beers in em

and showed up for work on time no matter their condition.

Union men.

I grew up wanting nothing to do with them.

Low-lifes was what their wives called em

Showing up at all hours of the night

smelling like someone else

or bloody from a bar fight.

Always looking for the fun.

They got in lots of trouble

and got out of some, too.

The Irish glimmer in their eyes made it easy to look the other way

even though they were Canadian and maybe no one in the family

had been Irish.

They sure drank that way.

Quiet, most of them, in the morning.

Mostly cause they were always in trouble with one of the women around.

Better to keep your mouth shut and get fed.

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Mandy May Cheetham

“Attempting to age in Hollywood is like trying to skydive in a shopping cart.” Host of the podcast Going Gray in Tinsel Town, and creator of MUTHA on HBOmax.